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Man-of-the-Word Challenge : Father–Son Discipleship

Written By

Pst Roy Agoya, BBI Men's Ministry

Published On

February 20, 2026

"Discover practical father–son discipleship strategies for biblical fatherhood. Build faith, model integrity, and disciple your sons to impact family and culture."

Practical Father–Son Discipleship Strategies

BIBLICAL fatherhood must move from inspiration to action.

Here are practical strategies every father can begin implementing immediately.

1. Schedule Weekly One-on-One Time

Consistency builds trust.

It could be:

Breakfast before school
A Saturday walk
Working on a project together
A drive without phones

Ask intentional questions:

What challenged you this week?
What are you struggling with?
What questions do you have about God?

Listen more than you speak.

Relationship opens the door for influence.

2. Read Scripture Together — Keep It Simple

Choose manageable portions.

Start with:

Book of Proverbs for wisdom
Gospel of John for understanding Jesus
Epistle of James for practical faith

Read briefly. Discuss practically.

Ask:

What does this teach about God?
What does this teach about manhood?
How can we apply this today?

Discipleship thrives on consistency, not complexity.

3. Model Repentance

One of the strongest lessons a father can teach is humility.

Say:
“I was wrong.”
“Forgive me.”

Sons must see that strength includes repentance.

If Christianity appears performance-based, they may reject it later.

4. Use Everyday Moments as Teaching Tools

Discipleship happens in ordinary life.

When you:

Handle financial pressure → teach stewardship
Face conflict → teach self-control
Experience disappointment → teach perseverance
Serve others → teach humility

Faith must be visible in real time.

5. Discuss Cultural Issues Directly

Do not avoid:

Sexual temptation
Pornography
Identity confusion
Peer pressure
University skepticism

If you do not address these topics, the internet will.

Create an environment where questions are welcomed, not shamed.

6. Assign Responsibility

Manhood grows through responsibility.

Give your son:

Household duties
Financial lessons (saving, giving, budgeting)
Opportunities to lead in prayer

Responsibility builds maturity and confidence.

7. Pray Over Him

Lay hands on your son and pray aloud.

Pray for:

Wisdom
Purity
Courage
Protection
Spiritual hunger

Fathers’ spoken words shape identity deeply.

8. Share Your Story

Tell him:

Your struggles
Your temptations
Your mistakes
Your turning points

Transparency builds credibility.

Idealized fathers create pressure. Honest fathers build trust.

9. Increase Engagement During Transition Years

Critical seasons include:

Early adolescence
Late teenage years
First year of university

These seasons require increased intentionality.

Many sons drift when fathers withdraw.

The Mantalk Challenge

Men, the problem is not that culture is too strong.

The problem may be that we are not deeply rooted in Scripture.

If Jesus said error begins because we do not know the Scriptures, then transformation begins when we do.

Becoming a man of the Word means:

Studying Scripture seriously
Leading your home spiritually
Modeling integrity consistently
Discipling your son intentionally

The light that changes a nation begins in a father’s heart.

Start small.
Stay consistent.
Lead boldly.

Because when fathers know Scripture deeply, sons grow strong — and culture feels the impact.

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Common Questions

Being born again secures your salvation—your sins are forgiven, and you belong to Christ. You don’t need deliverance to be saved.

However, even as a believer, you can still struggle with patterns, strongholds, or spiritual oppression from the past. Deliverance isn’t about salvation; it’s about applying Jesus’ freedom to those areas. If you experience ongoing struggles, prayer, renunciation, and pastoral support can help you walk fully in the liberty Christ has already won for you.
Breaking a generational curse, in a religious sense, is seen as a spiritual journey of repentance, faith, and deliberate action. It begins with acknowledging sin—both one’s own and, in some beliefs, the lingering effects of ancestors’ wrongdoing—and turning away from it through heartfelt repentance and prayer. This recognition is often accompanied by a conscious renunciation of the curse, verbally declaring that one no longer accepts the negative patterns or misfortunes that may have been passed down through the family line.

Faith plays a central role in this process. Believers rely on the power of God to intervene, heal, and restore, trusting that divine authority can break spiritual strongholds that have persisted for generations. Prayer, sometimes accompanied by fasting, Scripture reading, or intercession from spiritual leaders, is used to call on God’s guidance and protection.
When we receive salvation, our spirit is redeemed immediately. Our sins are forgiven, we are justified, and the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in us (Ephesians 1:7; Romans 5:1; Ephesians 1:13–14). Salvation restores our relationship with God and secures eternal life.

However, the curses or effects of sin in the world—sickness, generational patterns, fear, poverty, or emotional wounds—are not always broken automatically. The reason is that while our spirit is saved, our body, mind, and circumstances still exist in a fallen world under the consequences of sin (Romans 8:20–22).
If you struggle with something but generally overcome it, it is not necessarily a spirit. The Bible shows that even faithful believers wrestle with sin and weakness—Paul himself admitted in Romans 7:15–20 that he struggled to do what was right even as he desired to obey God. A true “spirit” or demonic stronghold is usually characterized by persistent, overpowering opposition that cannot be resisted through prayer, Scripture, and obedience.

If you are able to resist, repent, and grow despite the struggle, it is more likely an area God is using to refine your character and strengthen your faith. Struggles can reveal patterns in our lives that need God’s grace, teaching us dependence on Him, humility, and perseverance. Victory is not about perfection; it is about continuing to walk in obedience, relying on God’s Word, and trusting His Spirit to lead you forward.
Yes, according to Scripture, the human spirit can be influenced, but it’s important to be precise about what that means. The Bible teaches that we are spirit, soul, and body (1 Thessalonians 5:23). The “spirit man” is the part of us that connects with God, discerns spiritual truths, and communes with Him (John 4:24; Romans 8:16).

A demonic spirit cannot possess the spirit of a born-again believer because the Holy Spirit indwells them (1 Corinthians 6:19; 1 John 4:4). The Spirit of God protects and fills the spirit man, so it cannot be taken over. However, the spirit man can be influenced or oppressed by external spiritual forces if there is neglect, unrepented sin, or agreement with lies, which can affect our thoughts, emotions, and will.

Satan and his spirits can tempt, deceive, and oppress, but they cannot inhabit the spirit of someone truly born again. That’s why Scripture emphasizes guarding your heart and mind, staying in God’s Word, and walking in obedience—this keeps your spirit man aligned with God and resistant to attack (Ephesians 6:10–18; James 4:7).
consequences of sin, wrongdoing, or negative behavior can extend beyond an individual and affect their descendants. In this context, a generational curse is not merely about inherited traits or family patterns in a psychological sense, but rather a spiritual or moral consequence passed down through family lines.

For example, the Bible mentions in several passages, such as Exodus 20:5 and Numbers 14:18, that the sins of the parents can affect their children “to the third and fourth generation.” This is often interpreted to mean that unrepented sin or disobedience to God can create spiritual or circumstantial burdens like poverty, addiction, illness, or relational strife that may continue to manifest in subsequent generations.

Religious teachings often emphasize that generational curses are not inevitable. Through repentance, prayer, faith, and obedience to God, it is believed that individuals can break these curses and restore spiritual blessings to themselves and their descendants. In Christian practice, this might involve confession, seeking deliverance through prayer, or living a life aligned with God’s commandments to end the cycle of negative spiritual influence.
Feeling anger is not automatically a “spirit.” Anger is a natural emotion that God Himself expresses in certain circumstances (Exodus 32:10; Psalm 7:11). What matters is how you handle it. If you feel angry but do not act in sin, controlling your words, thoughts, and actions, this is not a demonic spirit—it is a natural human response being managed in obedience to God.

A spirit of anger in Scripture refers to a persistent, controlling, or destructive force that dominates a person’s behavior (Ephesians 4:26–27 warns against letting anger give the devil a foothold). If your anger arises but you remain calm, forgive, and do not allow it to control you, it is simply an emotion, not a spirit.
When faced with temptation, there are times to run and times to resist, and Scripture gives clear guidance.

You run from sin when it is dangerous, seductive, or beyond your natural ability to resist. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 6:18, “Flee fornication.” You remove yourself from the source of temptation—whether it’s a place, a person, or an opportunity—because staying there puts your soul at risk. Running is not cowardice; it is obedience and wisdom.

You resist when you are confronted with pressure or attack that you can face through God’s power. James 4:7 says, “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” Resisting means standing firm in faith, speaking Scripture, and relying on the Holy Spirit. This is active confrontation, not passive endurance.

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