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How to Discover and Walk in Your Calling

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Pst Dr Nellie Shani | Founder, CEO

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February 14, 2026

"What is the difference between spiritual gifts and the fruit of the Spirit? Learn how to bear fruit, discover your spiritual gift, and overcome the obstacles that stop believers from walking in their calling."

Spiritual Gifts vs. Fruit of the Spirit: What’s the Difference?

A gift is something we receive freely.
But fruit is something that must be cultivated.

This is a crucial biblical distinction that every believer must understand.

While spiritual gifts are given by grace, the fruit of the Spirit is developed through surrender, obedience, and spiritual growth.

Jesus said:

“…While every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.” – John 15:2

Pruning requires process. Growth requires cooperation. Bearing fruit takes work.

How Do We Bear the Fruit of the Spirit?

Many believers assume that the Holy Spirit automatically produces fruit in us. However, Scripture teaches that fruit must be nurtured.

When we are saved, the Holy Spirit indwells us — but the manifestation of the fruit depends on how we “water the tree.”

How do we water the Tree of the Holy Spirit?

We water it through:

Daily surrender
Obedience to the Word of God
Prayer
Repentance
Spiritual discipline

The fruit that God desires us to manifest is clearly listed in Galatians 5:22:

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

It is God’s will that every believer bear much fruit.

Fruit reflects character.
Fruit proves maturity.
Fruit glorifies God.

Are Spiritual Gifts Only for a Few Chosen Believers?

When it comes to the fruit of the Spirit, most believers agree that all Christians are called to manifest it.

But confusion often arises regarding spiritual gifts.

Some believe that spiritual gifts are reserved for a select few. Scripture says otherwise.

When the Holy Spirit descended in the upper room, He came upon each and every believer present.

Every believer has received at least one spiritual gift to fulfill their God-given purpose.

Romans 12:6 teaches:

“We have different gifts according to the grace given us…”

The passage then lists examples of spiritual gifts:

Prophecy
Serving
Teaching
Encouraging
Giving
Leadership
Showing mercy

Spiritual gifts are given according to grace, not merit.

Why Many Believers Don’t Walk in Their Spiritual Gifts

Unfortunately, many Christians do not know what their spiritual gifts are. There are three major enemies that prevent believers from walking in their gifting.

1️⃣ Comparison and Jealousy

Focusing on others — how they look, what they have, or the impact they make — leads to:

Jealousy
Competition
Self-rejection
Discouragement

Comparison distracts you from your assignment.

When you focus on someone else’s calling, you neglect your own.

2️⃣ Ignorance of Your Spiritual Gift

If you do not understand your gift, you may try to run someone else’s race.

The result?

Frustration
Failure
Self-pity
Blaming God

But God is not unfair. He distributes gifts wisely and intentionally.

You were designed with purpose.

3️⃣ Lack of Prayer

Prayer is essential for discovering and developing your spiritual gift.

Without prayer:

You will not grow in your gift
You may not recognize it
You may neglect it

Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal your gifting so you can serve effectively in the Body of Christ.

How to Discover Your Spiritual Gift

If you’re asking, “How do I know my spiritual gift?” — here are three biblical self-evaluation questions:

1️⃣ What do you do naturally that blesses others?

What comes easily to you but impacts others deeply?

2️⃣ What brings you joy and fulfillment?

Your spiritual gift often aligns with your God-given passion.

3️⃣ What brings glory to God?

Your gift should ultimately point people to Christ — not yourself.

The answers to these three questions often reveal your spiritual gifting.

Scripture encourages clarity:

“Now about the gifts of the Spirit, brothers and sisters, I do not want you to be uninformed.” – 1 Corinthians 12:1

God does not want you confused about your calling.

Why Walking in Your Spiritual Gift Matters

Your spiritual gift:

Strengthens the church
Builds up the body of Christ
Advances God’s Kingdom
Brings personal fulfillment
Glorifies God

When you neglect your gift, the Body suffers loss.

When you walk in your gift, others are blessed.

The Balance: Fruit and Gifts Together

Fruit without gifts limits impact.
Gifts without fruit damage character.

God desires both:

Christlike character (fruit of the Spirit)
Spirit-empowered service (spiritual gifts)

Maturity happens when both operate together.

You are not giftless.
You are not forgotten.
You are not insignificant.

You have received grace for a purpose.

Discover your spiritual gift.Develop it in prayer.Demonstrate it with humility.
And bear fruit that remains

Prayer Points

1. Repentance for Lack of Fruit
Ask the Lord to forgive you where you have not surrendered fully to His Word, preventing spiritual growth.

2. Revelation of Your Spiritual Gift
Ask the Holy Spirit to help you answer the three discovery questions and reveal your gifting.

3. Gratitude for Your Calling
Thank God that you have been uniquely gifted to bless the Body of Christ.

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Being born again secures your salvation—your sins are forgiven, and you belong to Christ. You don’t need deliverance to be saved.

However, even as a believer, you can still struggle with patterns, strongholds, or spiritual oppression from the past. Deliverance isn’t about salvation; it’s about applying Jesus’ freedom to those areas. If you experience ongoing struggles, prayer, renunciation, and pastoral support can help you walk fully in the liberty Christ has already won for you.
Breaking a generational curse, in a religious sense, is seen as a spiritual journey of repentance, faith, and deliberate action. It begins with acknowledging sin—both one’s own and, in some beliefs, the lingering effects of ancestors’ wrongdoing—and turning away from it through heartfelt repentance and prayer. This recognition is often accompanied by a conscious renunciation of the curse, verbally declaring that one no longer accepts the negative patterns or misfortunes that may have been passed down through the family line.

Faith plays a central role in this process. Believers rely on the power of God to intervene, heal, and restore, trusting that divine authority can break spiritual strongholds that have persisted for generations. Prayer, sometimes accompanied by fasting, Scripture reading, or intercession from spiritual leaders, is used to call on God’s guidance and protection.
When we receive salvation, our spirit is redeemed immediately. Our sins are forgiven, we are justified, and the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in us (Ephesians 1:7; Romans 5:1; Ephesians 1:13–14). Salvation restores our relationship with God and secures eternal life.

However, the curses or effects of sin in the world—sickness, generational patterns, fear, poverty, or emotional wounds—are not always broken automatically. The reason is that while our spirit is saved, our body, mind, and circumstances still exist in a fallen world under the consequences of sin (Romans 8:20–22).
If you struggle with something but generally overcome it, it is not necessarily a spirit. The Bible shows that even faithful believers wrestle with sin and weakness—Paul himself admitted in Romans 7:15–20 that he struggled to do what was right even as he desired to obey God. A true “spirit” or demonic stronghold is usually characterized by persistent, overpowering opposition that cannot be resisted through prayer, Scripture, and obedience.

If you are able to resist, repent, and grow despite the struggle, it is more likely an area God is using to refine your character and strengthen your faith. Struggles can reveal patterns in our lives that need God’s grace, teaching us dependence on Him, humility, and perseverance. Victory is not about perfection; it is about continuing to walk in obedience, relying on God’s Word, and trusting His Spirit to lead you forward.
Yes, according to Scripture, the human spirit can be influenced, but it’s important to be precise about what that means. The Bible teaches that we are spirit, soul, and body (1 Thessalonians 5:23). The “spirit man” is the part of us that connects with God, discerns spiritual truths, and communes with Him (John 4:24; Romans 8:16).

A demonic spirit cannot possess the spirit of a born-again believer because the Holy Spirit indwells them (1 Corinthians 6:19; 1 John 4:4). The Spirit of God protects and fills the spirit man, so it cannot be taken over. However, the spirit man can be influenced or oppressed by external spiritual forces if there is neglect, unrepented sin, or agreement with lies, which can affect our thoughts, emotions, and will.

Satan and his spirits can tempt, deceive, and oppress, but they cannot inhabit the spirit of someone truly born again. That’s why Scripture emphasizes guarding your heart and mind, staying in God’s Word, and walking in obedience—this keeps your spirit man aligned with God and resistant to attack (Ephesians 6:10–18; James 4:7).
consequences of sin, wrongdoing, or negative behavior can extend beyond an individual and affect their descendants. In this context, a generational curse is not merely about inherited traits or family patterns in a psychological sense, but rather a spiritual or moral consequence passed down through family lines.

For example, the Bible mentions in several passages, such as Exodus 20:5 and Numbers 14:18, that the sins of the parents can affect their children “to the third and fourth generation.” This is often interpreted to mean that unrepented sin or disobedience to God can create spiritual or circumstantial burdens like poverty, addiction, illness, or relational strife that may continue to manifest in subsequent generations.

Religious teachings often emphasize that generational curses are not inevitable. Through repentance, prayer, faith, and obedience to God, it is believed that individuals can break these curses and restore spiritual blessings to themselves and their descendants. In Christian practice, this might involve confession, seeking deliverance through prayer, or living a life aligned with God’s commandments to end the cycle of negative spiritual influence.
Feeling anger is not automatically a “spirit.” Anger is a natural emotion that God Himself expresses in certain circumstances (Exodus 32:10; Psalm 7:11). What matters is how you handle it. If you feel angry but do not act in sin, controlling your words, thoughts, and actions, this is not a demonic spirit—it is a natural human response being managed in obedience to God.

A spirit of anger in Scripture refers to a persistent, controlling, or destructive force that dominates a person’s behavior (Ephesians 4:26–27 warns against letting anger give the devil a foothold). If your anger arises but you remain calm, forgive, and do not allow it to control you, it is simply an emotion, not a spirit.
When faced with temptation, there are times to run and times to resist, and Scripture gives clear guidance.

You run from sin when it is dangerous, seductive, or beyond your natural ability to resist. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 6:18, “Flee fornication.” You remove yourself from the source of temptation—whether it’s a place, a person, or an opportunity—because staying there puts your soul at risk. Running is not cowardice; it is obedience and wisdom.

You resist when you are confronted with pressure or attack that you can face through God’s power. James 4:7 says, “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” Resisting means standing firm in faith, speaking Scripture, and relying on the Holy Spirit. This is active confrontation, not passive endurance.

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